September babies

Update skit pasal bulan ni. Quite special month for people who always around me. My sister in law, my sister,brother in law, hubby and also my lil baby turns to 10 months. Awww.. Happy birthday to all of you! May this year being your special one.
Love you all loads..

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Bibik oh bibik

Sampai jugak bibik ku... Alhamdulillah.

Ambik bibik melalui my husband's aunty. So ntah macam mane ade problem here n there.. Delay.delay.. Tapi alhamdulillah, sampai jugak akhirnya. Boleh la meringankan beban kerja2 rumah since i stay with mom in law yang nak jaga my lil boy Nu'man. Actually hubby wants me to berhenti kerja, but i refuse. Maybe not now cos i love my job. After all, i suggest to get a maid. Fikir punya fikir, he said yes.. Why don't kalau kita mampu and the main reason is for our baby. My baby macam tak serasi duduk kat nursery or babysitter. Dia nak wan dia jugak. That's the reason jugak why we stay with in law house.. Demi anak... But later, bila Nu'man dah besar sikit... I really wanted to send him to nursery. Dapat la berkawan n belajar at the same time.

Bab bibik pulak.. I don't want to put any hope or trust at all. It's just too early kan. Kalau dia dukung Nu'man, i still feel like uncomfortable. It's just because she's outsider. Hmm.. Don't know how to describe my feelings. Told my hubby on what i feel.. Hubby ask me to continue on what i think n feel about my maid. Cos we cannot always think +ve about her should have those feelings too as a mother. That's we call security feeling.
Moga bibik dartin kerja dengan rajin dan dapat menjaga Nu'man dengan baik. Aminnnnn..

Alright la... Penyakit malas taip dah datang. Wait for my next entry ya. (tak tau bila..hehe)

Moga2 Allah permudahkan dalam segala yg aku lalukan sebagai seorang anak,isteri, ibu dan semestinya hamba-Nya. Aminnn..

Love
Theplainlady
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Nu'man milestones - 6months old

Assalamualaikumm... (entry lama dlm draft tapi lupe nak publish... Ampun..)

Alhamdulillah.. Masih bernyawa dengan izin-Nya. Hanya blog kesayangan ni sahaja yang dah nyawa2 ikan.. Kadang ber'update' kadang sepi tanpa cerita.

Hari ni Nu'man genap 6 bulan,10 hari. Dah besar, dah pandai macam2. Love exploring with his hands. I mean, the hand control with his toys.. Dh pandai pegang botol susu sendiri, suka isap ibu jari.. The milestone that give me a amuse when nu'man roll over in each direction. Its fun to see it, but it always makes me nerves. Paling susah during nappy changes, he start to grab something n roll over. Danger if leave him unattended on bed. Sbb dah pernah kena. Dapat benjol sebiji. Luckily katil tak tinggi and ade carpet tebal. Mujur takde pape.. Careless mama..!! :( after the incident, im start putting the changing mat on the floor instead.

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Matchmaker

Congratulations buddy on your engagement! I am the happiest. One more step to go..

After 9 years being friends, i could say that she is very a good friend. We close enough. But since i got married and have a baby, we seem have no time to chill out together like we always did when we was single.

How we know each other? We're the first batch of PLKN on 2004. We met there. Always be put in the same group, same project assignment etc. It makes the relationship more strong day b. Quite sad after the PLKN finished and yes we being so close for 3months only. But it last continue after that. Frequent phone calls connect us back till she got study offer at UITM Jengka. Happy for her while i am still study at IIC.

Ok, make it short. I am happy for u dear Fadilah binti Nayan.hehe.. May our friendship will last forever.. May your engagement will end up with marrage life. InsyaAllah.

Love,
Theplainlady

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Nu'man is 5 month old now

Assalamualaikum..

Quite some time jugak tak update my blog ni. Memang banyak nak cerita pasal my price Nu'man, but i just have no time to type up in here..
Tapi still jugak nak update serba sedikit pasal perkembangan Nu'man, sebab takut lupa. Nanti bila dah tua, still boleh baca.

Nu'man turns 5 month old on last thursday, 18th April. Ohh.. How time flies sayang. Mama bought so many toys, books and baju of course!! Haha.. Since Nu'man show so many sign to eat, so mama bought few bottles of HEINZ food. Apprently, he doesn't like the taste, but i insist suap the pear&banana puree. Haha..
Nu'man make a face which seems to express distaste. * exciting milestone for mama *

Anyway, happy 5 month old sayang!

Hugs,
Theplainlady

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Tak Pernah Bagi Duit kat Parents?

Cerita buat renungan bersama..

 

 

kenapa? sengkek? gaji sikit? ke mak ayah dah kaya, sebab tu segan nak bagi?

Ini kisah saya. Apa yang berlaku dekat saya, tak semestinya sama dengan semua orang.

Saya kongsikan serba sedikit.

Dulu, income saya tak banyak.
Jadi, saya takdelah terfikir nak bagi duit kat parents.

Satu hari, saya ada dengar satu ceramah,
dia kata, "bukan soal berapa banyak, tapi soalnya kita bagi ke tak?"

Sejak daripada tu, saya bagi je setiap bulan, walaupun sikit.
Berapa sikit?

Sikit sangat.
First time saya nak bagi tu, saya malu sangat-sangat.
Jumlah dia : RM5

yeap, RM5 je .... saya malu nak cerita ni sebenarnya.

Saya bagitahu, "Ummi, ni je yang Kamil mampu bagi buat masa ni, doakan rezeki Kamil murah, boleh bagi lebih lagi"

Masa saya bagi tu, malu ada, sebak ada dan macam-macam perasaan masa tu.
Saya nak cerita ni semula pun, ada rasa sebak lagi.


Tapi mak saya jawab, "Terima kasih, Ummi doakan rezeki awak sekeluarga sentiasa bertambah".

"Alhamdulillah".

Saya risau mak saya marah atau kecil hati, tapi tidak. Bahkan beliau doakan saya dan senyum.

Saya yakin, janji Allah tidak pernah salah.

"Redha Allah, terletak pada Redha ibu bapa"

Entah tiba-tiba, saya terasa macam satu semangat, untuk kerja keras, idea mencurah-curah dan segalanya berjalan mudah.

Masalah tu ada, mana mungkin takde, tapi ......
tenang je rasa.

Kalau susah, tak terasa susah.
kalau lapar, tak terasa lapar.

Alhamdulillah, daripada RM5, jadi RM10, pastu RM20 dan seterusnya hingga sekarang .....

Yang peliknya, lagi banyak saya bagi, lagi banyak saya dapat.

Ni ada sedikit tip untuk anda :-
1. tak mampu bagi banyak, bagi sikit
2. segan nak bagi duit sikit, beli barang keperluan dapur, beras ke, gula ke, apa-apa lah...
3. kalau tak mampu juga, JANGAN nyusahkan mereka, dan sentiasalah berniat untuk membantu mereka satu hari nanti


Wallahua'lam.
Saya bukan anak yang baik sangat,
tapi mak ayah saya baik sangat dengan saya.


"It's not about the money, it's about the value of the money."

As for me, tetap bagi every month. Sikit or banyak belakang kira. But I noticed, bila bagi duit dekat parents, rezeki kita bertambah2 lepas tu. Ade je rezeki tanpa di jangka. Duit pun tak pernah kering. Honestly time baru2 kerja dulu, jarang bagi duit dekat parents. Parents pun paham. Gaji kecil.  Hujung bulan je dah start nak saving n ikat perut. Notice, bila dah hulur dekat parents walaupun skit, InsyaAllah poket tak kan pernah kering. Believe me.. Mintak parents selalu doakan rezeki kita murah. IsyaAllah, duit sikit tapi sentiasa rase mencukupi.

 

 

Alriteee..till I blog again. Assalamualaikum..!!

 

 

Love,

Theplainlady

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Colours of 2013

Assalamualaikum.. 

(Jawab sayang, tak jawab dosa.. J)

Salam Maulidur Rasul, Happy New Year of 2013.

Too many things happened in early year of 2013. Mix well of happiness & sadness.

Love to talk about the happy thing at the first place. Let’s check it out!!

1.  Nouman is already two months old on 18 Jan 2013.  Time flies so fast! Mommy still remember every single thing in labour room to deliver you, son! Anyway, mom happy to see you grow up healthy and happy. May you be a soleh ones for mommy & Ayah.

2.   Happy 1^st  Anniversary!!  ( 22 Jan 2013)

If Ayah read this, mommy wants to thank of everything that Ayah have done. You’re such a good friend, husband and my bodyguard. When I am sick, you’re the one who worried, bring me to the clinic and taking care of me. When I tired, sleepless.. you know what to do. Get our house clean (housekeeping, cook and take turns watch the baby). When I am sad, you came and pujuk, hug and calm me. When I am happy..Yess! You bring me shopping..makan2, window shopping, and holiday. Mommy really appreciate it. Thanks for everything ayah! ** Hugs**

Ayah, a very long journey ahead. May our marriage will last forever till Jannah with full of happiness and bless from Him. Mommy loves ayah so much!!

3.  Nur Damia Hanis binti Mohd Najib (15 Jan 2013)

Welcome to the world my lil cute niece, Damia.  Kak Ayu (Along) has delivered her cute daughter at HTAA, c-sec. Aunty has nothing much to say, but pray that Damia will grow up healthy and be a good daughter ya.

4.  Opah (grandmom) has passed away! ( 06 Feb 2013) Al-Fatihah…

I miss opah so much!! I was Opah’s fav granddaughter, but not anymore since cicik and ciuk dah bertambah and membesar di rumah opah. I remember, when I was secondary school.. I love to drop by at Opah’s house from hostel and accompany her to buy groceries at shop. Opah always buy something for me as upah and that’s why I loves to accompany her. hahha.. She always give me ‘duit poket’, in every time i visit her. She knows, hard for me to keluar from hostel and find some junk food and etc. I loves to cook and make some kuih muih. Especially nasi goreng & donut. J Opah puji, my donut sedap.. (It’s a compliment to me, semangat tu) siap offer suruh jual at Opah’s stall. Things that I miss the most is her cook! Sedap sangat!! Even singgang ikan tamban. So much sweet memory with Opah. I can’t tell everything now..

 * my tears drop**

The sadness, I haven’t chance to meet n kiss her for the last time. (long story..) Redha.

Moga Allah tempatkan arwah Opah bersama orang2 yang beriman. *Pray**

Till I blog again!!

Love,

theplainlady