Friday, March 22, 2013

Tak Pernah Bagi Duit kat Parents?



Cerita buat renungan bersama..

 

 


kenapa? sengkek? gaji sikit? ke mak ayah dah kaya, sebab tu segan nak bagi?

Ini kisah saya. Apa yang berlaku dekat saya, tak semestinya sama dengan semua orang.

Saya kongsikan serba sedikit.

Dulu, income saya tak banyak.
Jadi, saya takdelah terfikir nak bagi duit kat parents.

Satu hari, saya ada dengar satu ceramah,
dia kata, "bukan soal berapa banyak, tapi soalnya kita bagi ke tak?"

Sejak daripada tu, saya bagi je setiap bulan, walaupun sikit.
Berapa sikit?

Sikit sangat.
First time saya nak bagi tu, saya malu sangat-sangat.
Jumlah dia : RM5

yeap, RM5 je .... saya malu nak cerita ni sebenarnya.

Saya bagitahu, "Ummi, ni je yang Kamil mampu bagi buat masa ni, doakan rezeki Kamil murah, boleh bagi lebih lagi"

Masa saya bagi tu, malu ada, sebak ada dan macam-macam perasaan masa tu.
Saya nak cerita ni semula pun, ada rasa sebak lagi.


Tapi mak saya jawab, "Terima kasih, Ummi doakan rezeki awak sekeluarga sentiasa bertambah".

"Alhamdulillah".

Saya risau mak saya marah atau kecil hati, tapi tidak. Bahkan beliau doakan saya dan senyum.

Saya yakin, janji Allah tidak pernah salah.

"Redha Allah, terletak pada Redha ibu bapa"

Entah tiba-tiba, saya terasa macam satu semangat, untuk kerja keras, idea mencurah-curah dan segalanya berjalan mudah.

Masalah tu ada, mana mungkin takde, tapi ......
tenang je rasa.

Kalau susah, tak terasa susah.
kalau lapar, tak terasa lapar.

Alhamdulillah, daripada RM5, jadi RM10, pastu RM20 dan seterusnya hingga sekarang .....

Yang peliknya, lagi banyak saya bagi, lagi banyak saya dapat.

Ni ada sedikit tip untuk anda :-
1. tak mampu bagi banyak, bagi sikit
2. segan nak bagi duit sikit, beli barang keperluan dapur, beras ke, gula ke, apa-apa lah...
3. kalau tak mampu juga, JANGAN nyusahkan mereka, dan sentiasalah berniat untuk membantu mereka satu hari nanti


Wallahua'lam.
Saya bukan anak yang baik sangat,
tapi mak ayah saya baik sangat dengan saya.


"It's not about the money, it's about the value of the money."

As for me, tetap bagi every month. Sikit or banyak belakang kira. But I noticed, bila bagi duit dekat parents, rezeki kita bertambah2 lepas tu. Ade je rezeki tanpa di jangka. Duit pun tak pernah kering. Honestly time baru2 kerja dulu, jarang bagi duit dekat parents. Parents pun paham. Gaji kecil.  Hujung bulan je dah start nak saving n ikat perut. Notice, bila dah hulur dekat parents walaupun skit, InsyaAllah poket tak kan pernah kering. Believe me.. Mintak parents selalu doakan rezeki kita murah. IsyaAllah, duit sikit tapi sentiasa rase mencukupi.

 

 

Alriteee..till I blog again. Assalamualaikum..!!

 

 

Love,

Theplainlady


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Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Colours of 2013


Assalamualaikum.. 
(Jawab sayang, tak jawab dosa.. J)

Salam Maulidur Rasul, Happy New Year of 2013.

Too many things happened in early year of 2013. Mix well of happiness & sadness.
Love to talk about the happy thing at the first place. Let’s check it out!!

1.  Nouman is already two months old on 18 Jan 2013.  Time flies so fast! Mommy still remember every single thing in labour room to deliver you, son! Anyway, mom happy to see you grow up healthy and happy. May you be a soleh ones for mommy & Ayah.
2.   Happy 1st  Anniversary!!  ( 22 Jan 2013)
If Ayah read this, mommy wants to thank of everything that Ayah have done. You’re such a good friend, husband and my bodyguard. When I am sick, you’re the one who worried, bring me to the clinic and taking care of me. When I tired, sleepless.. you know what to do. Get our house clean (housekeeping, cook and take turns watch the baby). When I am sad, you came and pujuk, hug and calm me. When I am happy..Yess! You bring me shopping..makan2, window shopping, and holiday. Mommy really appreciate it. Thanks for everything ayah! ** Hugs**
Ayah, a very long journey ahead. May our marriage will last forever till Jannah with full of happiness and bless from Him. Mommy loves ayah so much!!
3.  Nur Damia Hanis binti Mohd Najib (15 Jan 2013)
Welcome to the world my lil cute niece, Damia.  Kak Ayu (Along) has delivered her cute daughter at HTAA, c-sec. Aunty has nothing much to say, but pray that Damia will grow up healthy and be a good daughter ya.
4.  Opah (grandmom) has passed away! ( 06 Feb 2013) Al-Fatihah…
I miss opah so much!! I was Opah’s fav granddaughter, but not anymore since cicik and ciuk dah bertambah and membesar di rumah opah. I remember, when I was secondary school.. I love to drop by at Opah’s house from hostel and accompany her to buy groceries at shop. Opah always buy something for me as upah and that’s why I loves to accompany her. hahha.. She always give me ‘duit poket’, in every time i visit her. She knows, hard for me to keluar from hostel and find some junk food and etc. I loves to cook and make some kuih muih. Especially nasi goreng & donut. J Opah puji, my donut sedap.. (It’s a compliment to me, semangat tu) siap offer suruh jual at Opah’s stall. Things that I miss the most is her cook! Sedap sangat!! Even singgang ikan tamban. So much sweet memory with Opah. I can’t tell everything now..
 * my tears drop**

The sadness, I haven’t chance to meet n kiss her for the last time. (long story..) Redha.
Moga Allah tempatkan arwah Opah bersama orang2 yang beriman. *Pray**


Till I blog again!!


Love,
theplainlady


Tuesday, December 18, 2012

One month old today!

Salam...

Woot.woot..Nu'man is one month old today! How time flies! Feels like just yesterday deliver my lil hero. You grow up very fast dear and mommy dont want to miss to see your development each days..

Mommy & ayah will always pray for the best for you. May you be a soleh one for us! InsyaAllah..


Sealedwithhugs&kisses,
Theplainlady

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My lil son - Wan Ahmad Nu'man bin Wan Najran

Salam..

Alhamdulillah, syukur Allah di atas segala kurniaan-Mu. Putera sulungku yang di nanti nanti kan telah selamat di lahirkan ke dunia Allah S.W.T pada 18/11/2012, 5.43am di Hospital Pakar Bersalin Al-Farabi,Kuantan. Segalanya cukup mudah seperti yang di harapkan. Sesungguhnya Dia maha mendengar lagi maha mengetahui. Thank you Allah atas pemberian yang amat berharga ini.

Nama: Wan Ahmad Nu'man bin Wan Najran
D.O.B: 18 Nov 2012 @5.43am
Berat: 3.26kg

* mommy & ayah loves you baby!

Love
Theplainlady

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Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Holiday Part II - Tanjung Jara Resort, Terengganu

Salam semua!

Lambat update pasal holiday part II ni. Layan gambar je la k.. Cheers~

Time ni mmg tengah sarat. Tapi yakin belum tiba masanya lagi. Niat ziarah kawan hubby yg baru dapat baby..

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Friday, November 9, 2012

Holiday @ Grand Lexis, Port Dickson

Hola..

Dalam tengah sarat menunggu hari (38weeks) kelahiran my baby ni, sempat lagi kami bercuti ke Port Dickson. Holiday terakhir berdua-duan..hiks! Tapi kalau holiday bawak anak skali, lagi best kan..sebab bilik hotel kali ni attached with private pool..heaven kan? So tak payah share pool dengan orang lain..layan anak ngan hubby je.haha..
Holiday 3 days & 2 night ni sangat awesome. Sebab bilik dia yang sangat cantik (Grand Pool Villa). Ade 2 king size bed, private pool n etc.Sangat cool.. Keluasan bilik dalam 1026sqf. Besar kan? Kalau tak silap, ni bilik paling besar with rate RM 1350 per night. Tapi corporate rate company dapat 10% less. Sila la datang ke sini, riadah bersama keluarga. Bilik atas air, siap boleh memancing n tangkap ketam. Cool kan? Check it out the hotel website for more pictures & details :
http://m.grandlexispd.com/

Actually berdebar jugak takut terberanak kat sini.haha..tapi selalu cakap dekat baby dalam perut, jangan keluar dulu..mama nak holiday dengan ayah. Hopefully dia dengar n bertahan dalam mommy's womb. Eventho dia sangat aktif sekarang, menendang tu pekara biasa..tp bila dia mengeras tu hati rase tak sedap sebab ingat tu contraction nak bersalin.

Alhamdulillah takde pape tanda lagi. Esok hari terakhir dekat sini, then terus shoot balik kuantan and nak bawak my mom n family jalan2 pulak. So tunggu update for next holiday # part 2 pulak k?
What else?? Layan je gambar2 ni k..cheers~


Luv,
Theplainlady

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Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Update: 36weeks

Salam all..

Hari ni dah masuk 36weeks (9bulan). Tapi due lambat lg, 20 Nov nanti. Confius jugak..hmm. Sabtu ni check up lagi, then baru tau exact EDD.
Progress baby sangat active. Rase macam dia mengeliat. Sebab terase sangat tulang2 yang dah makin kuat n keras. Sedikit sakit tapi best jugak..hihi. Buat mase ni, takde rase sakit pape. Cuma kaki selalu rase lenguh n kejang time tengah tidur.
Dari bacaan di internet, dorg cakap tu pekara biase. Sakit pinggang belum lagi. Melainkan letih n mengah2 je..
Berdebar dan excited tunggu baby keluar. Moga Allah permudahkan segala urusanku dalam melahirkan anak ku ni nanti. Juga lindungi la anak ku dari sebarang ganguan syaitan n sebarang penyakit. Aminn..

* perut dah ke depan..comel tak?hehe.. (35weeks)

Wassalam
Theplainlady

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